The worst way to get inspiration for your own web design is your competitors!
Here are some great websites to turn to for inspiration:
30 Best Free Icon Sets for Bloggers is a good place to go to get cool looking Facebook and other blogger icons.
The Importance Of Wireframes In Web Design And 9 Tools To Create Wireframes is worth investigating if you want to create visual mockups of your website and/or its navigation
And it wouldn’t be right to not mention the two “meta sites” that have these and lots more: